Cool parent, Are you in the category?

Recently, a friend of mine are talking about our parent. We were comparing each parents' behaviour will change the growth of a child. I seems to notice that cool parent will most likely be more closer to the child. Can i be a cool parent in the future?

We agree that it would be best to be cool with our kids. Let them boast that they have a great father or mother :) I believed that a family who had a cool parent will surely have their other half that are strict & firm. We can call them as the "Bad" parent. Not saying bad totally, but always strict from the child point of view, they are bad. Just like a movie, there are bad & good people. It's a balance. A family should have this in order that it will be more interesting. I do not say that all parent must be a bad parent when they discipline their child, just that everything MUST have in order that a child grow up to be a more better person in their lives.

A cool parent will surely make a child love their home more than anything else. This is because when ever they came home, they will be entertain by their great parents' who will never stop giving them joys. How awesome is it? :) With the cases of youth running away from home, parent should re-evaluate what is the reason behind all this. I am not a pro, i just point out what's in my mind. Some time, we can't blame the parent totally. Youth do play a role. They do need to talk with their parents what's in their mind. Don't keep it all inside your mind.

My parent? Oh well, they are cool parent. We can argue and the next day we are just fine. When i was young, i was really mad at them for all the silly or minor things that they may not have done it for me. I grow up to be more naughty & sometimes never head for their advices. As i grew older, i sense everything they said will benefit me in some ways. What to say: Old ginger has their values.

Our conversation may be short at times, but it is really interesting. At times, i just replied in a harsh way but i don't mean it in my heart. It is acceptable to them. I guess all this was our ways of conversation. I also knew a friend who talk to his/her mom loudly.
He said: THIS IS THE WAY WE TALK!

Well, each of us has our ways of communicating with our parent.

I would like to end by stating: Our parent are cool in some ways we may have not noticed!

Give them a chance to be cool! Notice their way of talking...
You will find the unique as this only happen to you :)
Have a nice day!

BB 07, Hi 2008

Hi folks..I have resigned from my job and further on with my studies. I have been accepted into UNISEL. (University Industry Selangor) The reason i enter university is because i would like to achieve my dream of becoming a teacher. I am currently taking Foundation in B.Edu.(TESL). After i complete my foundation, i will proceed with the Bachelor of Edu (Tesl).
I am in my 2nd week of studies. Assignment has been given to us and we will be expecting more classes for the third week. The first 2 week of studies is like holidays. A few holiday fall on Tuesday and Monday classes was being placed aside to make way for the holiday. I am expecting a hectic week when i start my class on Wednesday.

Some people were force to take up this course or otherwise no choice. This was being told by them when the lecturer had a Q & A session. I was quite sad to know that they are not here to be a teacher. This course was suppose to produce them to be a teacher. If you don't plan to be a teacher, why you choose TESL? Anyway, their choice is not up to me to judge.

A bunch of "rocket" & a couple went to Curve for eve's celebrate. We didn't go some where happening because most of us are tired of it. We sat at HEAVEN Cafe while listening to some song. It was also the first time that we sit down and listen to the sound of fire cracker burst its way up the skies. Interesting way to celebrate huh? :P

Today WE WENT TO curve again. This time is to sing K! It was fun & entertaining. It was also my first time singing with them. Oh syok! I love old song but they prefer new song.

As i am writing this, i am suppose to return to Batang Berjuntai. My class start at 8.30am tomorrow. DARN! So tiring...

I shall go after all my stuff is pack.

Have a blessed new YEAR!

The arts of Experiencing God

I am back! Back from YLDP @ KKB. This time around, it reminds me of Prayer Conference in Penang that are being held early this year. You may wonder how come... It's because of the holy spirit that worked in me.

Before i went to YLDP, i actually watched a video on youtube where a pastor pray for people to be fill with holy spirit. When the pastor start praying for the people, they were filled with holy spirit and are weak to stand on their feet. In a while, they fall & lie on the floor. As i watched it, my first impression is that it may be a bit of exaggerate by people who upload the video.

However, what i see may not compare to the experience that i had.

I have the privilege to witness the reality of what that is showed in the video. For the first 3 days of the camp, i have witness something that i had not seen/experience personally in my whole life.

For the first 2 night, pastor daniel singh prayed for the participants. We as helper were there to support him and i must say that we are short of hand when the holy spirit start working amongst us. I was stunned when he just put his hand a few cm before the participant forehead and followed by placing his hand on the stomach/hand. What he say was "CHANGE" for a few time and the holy spirit is like passing from his hand to the people who were being pray for. I was really amazed by this and the vision still clear in my mind. The end of the first night really shock me up and i find GOD so Close to us! I am sweating like never before!

The second night follow as how the first night was. I am more prepared for it. We also see more people coming forward to take up the challenge to get close to GOD.

The third night pastor requested to pray for the helper. In my mind, my thought is that i am a man, it wont be any easy for me to fall off/being control by the holy spirit from my own strength. There are many people who had pray for me, but none has done it before. How can it happen on that day? How can the holy spirit work that day? How wrong i am!!! I have this ego that i need to stripped it OFF! God has showed me that he is the greatest among all!

When pastor prayed for the rest of the people, i still doubt about it. When he stand in front and prayed for me, i lost my strength and GOD's Holy Spirit filled me!!!!!!! I am weak and GOD use His people to bring me down on the floor & reconnect with Him again. I felt that there is a heavy weight on me & i couldn't move both my hand! At last, i surrender all my life unto Him. I asked for His forgiveness. He showed me vision that are just too much to contain in my lives. This is a day that i will remember and i will not drift away from GOD. This is also a day i remember for His greatness!

Friends , God is in charge of everything. I am a man, BUT GOD IS GOD! His love is the greatest of all!

I hope that this testimonies will change your life.

I am going into Unisel this wednesday. Please pray for me that everything will be smooth. May the LORD bless you!

Riots-Another trend in Msia?

Recently, Malaysia is pretty 'HOT' as our country name are frequently heard oversea. I believed that it will boost Malaysia Tourism! Right? Thats what the Minister say mah..Visit 2007!

Malaysian Want to be heard! That is why people are willing to come out and stand for what they think is right. Why can't they (The GOV.) allowed peaceful hand over for the memorandum? The Bersih Campaign & the Hindraf.. why don't let them just pass the stuff to those authority, and everything will be solve? Why wana block their voice/intention? Perhaps the COPS/Rela/FRU are too free right? Aren't Malaysia practice democracy? Come on la... They are not killing people, they just want to pass something up !!!! They want their voice be heard! That will not go against the rule... OK, perhaps they don't have police permission... But just let them pass up a paper, will it be that hard?

I guess in future when a student want to pass up his/her homework, they might have to go through the police station to ask permission!

Ridiculous? Have some thought!

A war scene?

Noise are everywhere. It seems to me like a night market where people are yelling from far away. With the smell that linger in my nose, i hated it so much. But i gear up my self, walk up front to the man wearing blue uniform & enquired your whereabout. The environment is just like a war zones. Every human face has a tired look. They looked like just had a battle before i arrived...

I was at University Malaysia visiting a friend in ICU. Those description above reflect how i see it from my point of view...

Her name is Tay Suet Leng. She just undergo bone marrow transplant. Before the bone marrow being transfer from her sister who is her donor, she is quite good & chubby. Now, what i have seen is a no-reaction friend whom i can't talk or sms. I felt so helpless as i can't do anything. Looking at her lying on the bed, my heart ache. I also thought of how her parent would felt.

I begin to pray for her as i felt so helpless. Praying for her is the only thing that i could do for her. The nurse told me she is stable. For further information about her, the nurse asked me to refer to the doctor in charge of her. I rejected knowing that doctor is busy. No point i ask them how is her situation as i can see it for my self.

Friend, appreciate our lives as we remember these people who are fighting for their lives. I request that all of you, please pray for her. She is 20 years old, going 21 this December.

May God bless you & have a nice day!