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Showing posts with label parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parenting. Show all posts

Friday, May 16, 2008

Jgn Main Main dgn edukasi (Don't play play with education )

Janganlah main main dengan edukasi ( edukasi=Direct Translation-No such word in BM. It's pendidikan) Kerana ia amat penting bagi seseorang pelajar. Lihatlah, sekarang menteri menteri kita ni tengok banyak orang yang tak dapat ikut pelajaran yang diajar dalam bahasa ENGLISH {on purpose} , dia pula ingin nak tukar ia balik ke bahasa asal, iaitu Bahasa Melayu. Jgnlah buat macem tu! Dia orang baru belajar 1-2 tahun aje. Kau ingat senang ke nak menyesuaikan diri? LT!

Kau pun minum susu selama 3-4 tahun la..bagilah peluang! Lagipun, apa ia kena mengena dengan orang kaya dan miskin? Ape orang bandar lebih sokong kepada penggunaan Inggeris kerana dia orang lebih kaya? Pendidikan tidak kena mengena dengan orang yang kaya atau orang miskin!!!! Saya pernah tengok orang yang tinggal dekat bandar langsung tidak pandai dalam Bahasa Inggeris. Jadi, ape penjelasan anda?

Saya rasa ia adalah keazaman seseorang itu yang menjadi soalan. Adakah pelajar-pelajar itu menberi perhatian dalam pembelajaran? Atau mereka hanya tidak ingin belajar? Ataupun guru-guru itu sendiri yang tidak dapat menjelaskan mata-pelajaran itu dengan lebih mudah difahami oleh pelajar sehingga dia orang hilang minat? Aku tidak menyalahkan guru, tetapi hanya bertanyakan apakah masalah yang mungkin timbul. Aku seorang yang hormat kepada guru, kerana tanpa guru, apalah kita? Lagipun, aku akan menjadi seorang guru di masa hadapan. Aku sebagai seorang guru pun akan memberi yang terbaik bagi murid-murid yang diajar saya.

Menteri pendidikan, sila beri perhatian dan perancangan yang teliti demi masa depan pelajar-pelajar ni. Lain hari bila dia orang habis belajar kat sekolah menengah, pelajar itu harus memaksa sendiri untuk belajar mata pelajaran tertentu dalam Bahasa Inggeris. Jadi, kenapa tidak mula sekarang supaya bila ia sampai di tahap yang lebih tinggi, dia dapat menyesuaikan sendiri?

Fikirlah demi masa depan anak-anak kita!
Berjuanglah demi anak-anak generasi yang akan datang.

PS: Please support the teaching for maths and science in English!
Ps2:This is my first post in BM. Hope its not too bad. Any spelling error is intended, except grammar usage.

*LT=Bahasa Kasar, Jgn tanya saya!

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Where do you keep your Hand phone normally?

A friend send this article to my email. Just want to share it with you. It concerned me.
This morning I heard a true and sad story from a colleague of mine. She told me one of her friends is always having miscarriages. When the baby gets to be 2-3 months old she loses it. This happened several times over. The couple went to check with many doctors and at last one of the doctors examined the dead baby and found that the baby's body cells kept dying as the baby was growing in the womb until he/she could not survive. This was because her uterus was affected by HANDPHONE RADIATION. The doctor told her she now has no chance to give birth to a healthy baby because the radiationhas affected her uterus so that the major portion of the cells in her uterus have already died. This happened because she has been keeping her hand phone in her working jacket so that the phone rested against just the right s! pot for the uterus. She had been wearing it like this for a few years. Please beware of this and take note if you don't want what hashappened to this woman to happen to you.

Dearest family members,
Please do not ignore hand phone radiation which will damage our health or body organs. Please put away your hand phone when ever you don't need it much .

Guys,Please do not keep your hand phone near to the kidney position and pants pocket as this will damage your genital area and affect your ability to become a father.

The other doctor also advised another friend to keep her hand phone away from her new born baby to avoid radiation damage to the baby's brain cells. Do not let the baby or toddler play with the hand phone for a long time. This is because the small young baby or toddler is still very fragile and growing, so he/she is much more vulnerable to radiation damage.

Please remember not to sleep together with your handphone or put it next to your bed. Keep any other electronic goods (such as tvs) which also give off radiation away from your bedroom to reduce risk as we have to sleep a few hours every day in our bedroom at night. Further, do not imagine that if you switch off the TV there will be no radiation. Actually it is stillaround in your room. It is not advisable to have even a small digital alarm clock close to your head while sleeping.

Take Care of yourself and your loved ones.
Thank you

Post Note: I know how it felt of losing someone unborn. I'm suppose to have a bro/sis. Due to my mother body who is not strong enough, she can't give birth. I'm sad at that time and do argue about it. I had realize that it was not good to argue with her as I believed that she is also trying hard to get me a companion. I shared my story with my church member and giving my highest respect to all the mother. Dear Friends, Take good care of your self. BOYCOTT handphone in your pocket lah...

Thursday, January 24, 2008

Cool parent, Are you in the category?

Recently, a friend of mine are talking about our parent. We were comparing each parents' behaviour will change the growth of a child. I seems to notice that cool parent will most likely be more closer to the child. Can i be a cool parent in the future?

We agree that it would be best to be cool with our kids. Let them boast that they have a great father or mother :) I believed that a family who had a cool parent will surely have their other half that are strict & firm. We can call them as the "Bad" parent. Not saying bad totally, but always strict from the child point of view, they are bad. Just like a movie, there are bad & good people. It's a balance. A family should have this in order that it will be more interesting. I do not say that all parent must be a bad parent when they discipline their child, just that everything MUST have in order that a child grow up to be a more better person in their lives.

A cool parent will surely make a child love their home more than anything else. This is because when ever they came home, they will be entertain by their great parents' who will never stop giving them joys. How awesome is it? :) With the cases of youth running away from home, parent should re-evaluate what is the reason behind all this. I am not a pro, i just point out what's in my mind. Some time, we can't blame the parent totally. Youth do play a role. They do need to talk with their parents what's in their mind. Don't keep it all inside your mind.

My parent? Oh well, they are cool parent. We can argue and the next day we are just fine. When i was young, i was really mad at them for all the silly or minor things that they may not have done it for me. I grow up to be more naughty & sometimes never head for their advices. As i grew older, i sense everything they said will benefit me in some ways. What to say: Old ginger has their values.

Our conversation may be short at times, but it is really interesting. At times, i just replied in a harsh way but i don't mean it in my heart. It is acceptable to them. I guess all this was our ways of conversation. I also knew a friend who talk to his/her mom loudly.
He said: THIS IS THE WAY WE TALK!

Well, each of us has our ways of communicating with our parent.

I would like to end by stating: Our parent are cool in some ways we may have not noticed!

Give them a chance to be cool! Notice their way of talking...
You will find the unique as this only happen to you :)
Have a nice day!