Recently, a friend of mine are talking about our parent. We were comparing each parents' behaviour will change the growth of a child. I seems to notice that cool parent will most likely be more closer to the child. Can i be a cool parent in the future?
We agree that it would be best to be cool with our kids. Let them boast that they have a great father or mother :) I believed that a family who had a cool parent will surely have their other half that are strict & firm. We can call them as the "Bad" parent. Not saying bad totally, but always strict from the child point of view, they are bad. Just like a movie, there are bad & good people. It's a balance. A family should have this in order that it will be more interesting. I do not say that all parent must be a bad parent when they discipline their child, just that everything MUST have in order that a child grow up to be a more better person in their lives.
A cool parent will surely make a child love their home more than anything else. This is because when ever they came home, they will be entertain by their great parents' who will never stop giving them joys. How awesome is it? :) With the cases of youth running away from home, parent should re-evaluate what is the reason behind all this. I am not a pro, i just point out what's in my mind. Some time, we can't blame the parent totally. Youth do play a role. They do need to talk with their parents what's in their mind. Don't keep it all inside your mind.
My parent? Oh well, they are cool parent. We can argue and the next day we are just fine. When i was young, i was really mad at them for all the silly or minor things that they may not have done it for me. I grow up to be more naughty & sometimes never head for their advices. As i grew older, i sense everything they said will benefit me in some ways. What to say: Old ginger has their values.
Our conversation may be short at times, but it is really interesting. At times, i just replied in a harsh way but i don't mean it in my heart. It is acceptable to them. I guess all this was our ways of conversation. I also knew a friend who talk to his/her mom loudly.
He said: THIS IS THE WAY WE TALK!
Well, each of us has our ways of communicating with our parent.
I would like to end by stating: Our parent are cool in some ways we may have not noticed!
Give them a chance to be cool! Notice their way of talking...
You will find the unique as this only happen to you :)
Have a nice day!
We agree that it would be best to be cool with our kids. Let them boast that they have a great father or mother :) I believed that a family who had a cool parent will surely have their other half that are strict & firm. We can call them as the "Bad" parent. Not saying bad totally, but always strict from the child point of view, they are bad. Just like a movie, there are bad & good people. It's a balance. A family should have this in order that it will be more interesting. I do not say that all parent must be a bad parent when they discipline their child, just that everything MUST have in order that a child grow up to be a more better person in their lives.
A cool parent will surely make a child love their home more than anything else. This is because when ever they came home, they will be entertain by their great parents' who will never stop giving them joys. How awesome is it? :) With the cases of youth running away from home, parent should re-evaluate what is the reason behind all this. I am not a pro, i just point out what's in my mind. Some time, we can't blame the parent totally. Youth do play a role. They do need to talk with their parents what's in their mind. Don't keep it all inside your mind.
My parent? Oh well, they are cool parent. We can argue and the next day we are just fine. When i was young, i was really mad at them for all the silly or minor things that they may not have done it for me. I grow up to be more naughty & sometimes never head for their advices. As i grew older, i sense everything they said will benefit me in some ways. What to say: Old ginger has their values.
Our conversation may be short at times, but it is really interesting. At times, i just replied in a harsh way but i don't mean it in my heart. It is acceptable to them. I guess all this was our ways of conversation. I also knew a friend who talk to his/her mom loudly.
He said: THIS IS THE WAY WE TALK!
Well, each of us has our ways of communicating with our parent.
I would like to end by stating: Our parent are cool in some ways we may have not noticed!
Give them a chance to be cool! Notice their way of talking...
You will find the unique as this only happen to you :)
Have a nice day!
